QUESTION: This question comes from a partner asking about how to approach the subject of Jesus with someone. She said, "I nervously walked to my neighbors next door, whom I've never met in person, to share with them an Easter card and to invite them to our church services. We chatted. I was comfortable because they were a very nice young couple, but when it came to asking about their faith, I got scared and never went further to see where they were at. I felt like I stepped up, but sort of failed at the same time. How do you approach the subject of people's faith so it's not pushy or weird?"
ANSWER: I told her "I really want to commend you for taking this step of faith. Many people freeze and are held back by fear or think they don't have the knowledge and are uncertain what to say. But you've overcome that. You stayed focused on your goal, and you achieved it.
When we talk with others, what matters most is showing a sincere interest in them - that's what Jesus did. He came into our world and became a man to show us the Way. So, next time, as you share or hand out materials, be yourself, stay relaxed, and let love be your motive. Your introduction will be natural and when people see you genuinely care, they will listen to the message that you want to share."
Testimony Time!
After hearing my response above, this partner called to tell me her and her husband were having their carpets cleaned by a young man who after he finished they got acquainted and began asking him about his faith. He said he’d actually been wanting to get more spiritual lately. They shared about being born again and asked him if he wanted to ask Jesus into his heart and he did! Praise God! He will be attending the upcoming Easter service with them! Glory to God!
QUESTION:
Is there a 3-step way to share Christ? How do I go about making sure to cover what I should say?
ANSWER:
That’s a great question—and honestly, the fact that you’re asking it already shows your heart to step out in faith.
There isn’t a perfect formula, but a simple 3-step approach can really help:
1. Connect with the person
Start by showing genuine interest. Ask questions, listen well, and care about their life. People are much more open when they feel seen and valued.
2. Share your story and the truth about Jesus
You don’t need to have all the answers. Just share what Jesus has done in your life and who He is—simply and honestly. The focus isn’t on being impressive, but on being real
3. Invite a response
This could be as simple as asking, “What do you think about that?” or “Would you like me to pray for you?” You’re not forcing anything—just opening the door.
Also remember: it’s not all on you. God is already at work in people’s hearts. Your role is to be faithful, not perfect.
Here’s a simple way to share the gospel in about a minute:
1. God’s love
“God loves you and created you to have a relationship with Him.”
2. Our problem (sin)
“But we’ve all gone our own way and sinned, which separates us from God.”
3. Jesus’ solution
“Jesus came, died on the cross for our sins, and rose again so we could be forgiven and restored to God.”
4. Our response
“We can turn to Him, trust in Him, and follow Him—and receive new life.”
You can end with a simple question like:
“Does that make sense?” or “Would you like to respond to that?”
If you have a question regarding sharing your faith with others, please submit it here, we would love to help answer any questions you may have, Tony and Alexandra Fleege.
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